Our principle is not to speculate on his infidelity without evidence, and never forgive if there's conclusive evidence. Think about it, if you can endure such overwhelming evidence of betrayal, then what is he afraid of? Women who excuse male disloyalty with the excuse of "all men are like that" should take full responsibility for the decreasing loyalty in men today. It's your indulgence that has made even good men go bad. If men were really "all like that", why do women bother marrying them? Women can survive alone, and single women even have more rights and freedoms. Nowadays, the gender ratio in China is seriously imbalanced, so what do we have to fear? If women could unite and impose the severest punishment on all cheating men, they would think twice before acting shamelessly, considering the dire consequences of making the leader very angry.