My friend!! She enjoys masochistic fantasies to achieve orgasm (but not in practice). However, she rarely achieves orgasm during normal sexual intercourse with her husband. She is a bit troubled by this, so how can she adjust? Response: There are many reasons for not being able to achieve an orgasm, such as lack of sexual knowledge, less than ideal sexual communication, lack of sexual skills, or being confined to routine and feeling more repressed in regards to sex. In fact,..,