One more adversity, one more maturity; one more desperate situation, one more opportunity.
If you think you will never be in a desperate situation in your life, then it can only prove that you are on the way to a desperate situation.
If you have already been in a desperate situation, then it proves that you have received the favor from God and will get an opportunity to change your fate. If you have already got out of a desperate situation, look back and you will say that you have never found that you are greater, stronger and smarter than what you imagine.
If you have succeeded, you should sincerely thank not your favorable conditions but your desperate situations.
In favorable conditions, what you harvest is merely something representing wealth, while most of the time, you are losing continuously, losing the original magnificence and passion for life. Favorable conditions are a corrosive and anesthetic agent, making you complete the evolution from the king of beasts roaring in the mountain forest to a lazy cat, making you experience the transformation from a general to a slave.
A desperate situation is just a distance, a threshold, also a turning point, an awakening and sublimation. In a desperate situation, you often break through the fences in your bone marrow and blood, transcend the conventions different from even those seen by common people or even yourself, write myths that you have never thought of. Therefore, a desperate situation is your capital and proof.
As long as a person is not willing to be mediocre, even if he has just a little idea, he will encounter all kinds of difficulties, resistance and troubles when turning his ideas into reality through methods. Artificially made, objectively existing and accidentally occurring ones will make you feel the helplessness of fleeting opportunities and short heroism, make you feel the embarrassment of being at the end of the road and having no one to turn to.
The reason why there are desperate situations in life is that you need to break through and challenge them. When caught in a desperate situation, don't curse. Learn to control, cherish and understand. Balzac said: A desperate situation is the ladder for geniuses to climb up, the baptism water for believers, the invaluable treasure for able persons, and the bottomless abyss for weaklings.
I say, a desperate situation is the end of your wrong thoughts and the beginning of your choice of the right approach. You either make a fortune in a desperate situation or fall in a desperate situation. Heroes of old were beset with many difficulties. An ordinary person becomes a hero in a field or a hero in an era because of setbacks and difficulties, because the difference between heroes and ordinary people lies in that heroes seize the opportunities behind adversities and create miracles in desperate situations, while ordinary people choose to drift along with the tide in adversities and choose to give up in desperate situations.
Everything is due to man for both success and failure. Failures are not born inferior to successes, but in adversities or desperate situations, successes persist one minute longer, take one more step, and think about one more problem than failures.
The stone from other hills can be used to polish our jade. Other people's affairs are our teachers. By looking at others' feet, we can at least take fewer detours and fall less frequently; one more idea, one more door.