This is the personal insight of a certain Shanghai gang leader. He can teach you how to easily see through a person. When you learn these things, without a doubt, you will be able to navigate society. Perhaps, those who want to become successful people also need to learn these unique common senses!
I won't swear anymore, I know I can't do it, and if I can't do it,
1. People who don't smoke or drink are all very selfish. Generally, they cannot be entrusted with one's life.
2. Those who flatter you are most likely to betray you. The person who hurts you the most is definitely the person you love the most. Seventy percent of murders happen between acquaintances. "A live tiger may still be approachable, but familiar people should not be too close."
3. Timid boys generally can accomplish great things. Those who think carefully before fighting are the ones with real talent. Men who cry must have compassion. Being indecisive is a kind of virtue.
4. People who like to scold others are often very fearful inside. Animals with horns are not carnivores. The quietest person in a group is often the most capable. "Move like a fire sweeping across, stay still like a mountain."