1: If you can avoid smoking, that's the best choice. Although it might help you attract some girls, not smoking will never draw annoyance. There are many ways to demonstrate masculinity; there is no need to gamble with your health.
2: Set goals for yourself, in one year, two years, five years. Maybe you were not born as advantageously as others, but through hard work, you can often change 70% of your fate. Giving up can only make you friends with cowardice.
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