1. Before sending your child to kindergarten, give him breakfast first and wait for half an hour before taking him to the kindergarten. This avoids the situation where he cries and vomits his food upon arrival, which not only makes his throat uncomfortable but also leaves him feeling hungry, worsening his mood.
2. After returning home, you can encourage your child to eat more fruits and vegetables, drink more water, and reduce consumption of sweets and meat. This prevents children from getting sick due to overeating, thus extending their adaptation time to the kindergarten environment.
3. Even if your child occasionally feels unwell or has a minor illness, it is important to continue sending him to kindergarten. Avoid taking breaks that could lead to longer periods of crying when they return, making it harder for them to adapt. Encourage perseverance so that your child quickly adapts to the collective life at kindergarten with minimal crying.
4. If your child is too weak, consider waiting until after September when most children have already adapted to kindergarten. Then send your child in October, allowing teachers to focus more on helping him adjust.
5. Use methods like diverting attention by using interesting toys and building blocks in the classroom to attract their interest and shift their focus away from anxiety.
6. When sending your child to school, avoid discussing marital issues or expressing dissatisfaction about your spouse in front of your child who may not understand these complex emotions. Doing so can create unnecessary anxiety and stress. Parents should manage their own emotions carefully to ensure the child doesn’t worry about them while at kindergarten, thereby avoiding increased anxiety.
7. Refrain from giving excessive instructions such as telling your child to listen to the teacher, follow discipline, be polite, sing loudly, or draw bigger pictures during the journey to kindergarten. Such high expectations, prohibitions, or advice might overwhelm the child, leading to feelings of anxiety and unease.
8. Before sending your child to kindergarten, reassure him by saying: "You can play happily in kindergarten, and mom will definitely come to pick you up after school." This helps the child feel secure knowing that his parents haven't abandoned him and that he will return to their care.
9. Once you drop your child off at class, leave immediately without hesitation. Teachers are skilled at comforting children. Avoid showing signs of sadness or looking back repeatedly, as this anxiety can affect the child, making him feel even more scared and lonely. Typically, after a few days of crying, the child will adjust.
10. Parents should consistently pick up and drop off their child on time, especially during the initial period. Make sure to pick up your child promptly after dinner. Delayed pickups can cause the child to become anxious, leading to further crying and reluctance to attend kindergarten the next day.
11. Parents can bring their child to kindergarten earlier in the morning, allowing them to play outdoors with large toys for a bit. Let them play again when picking them up in the evening. Toys will capture their interest, and whenever kindergarten is mentioned, they will recall the fun toys.
12. Allow your child to bring small toys or snacks to share with classmates. Parents can also arrange outings to parks with other families, encouraging friendships among children. Having familiar friends at kindergarten provides a sense of security, reducing crying and aiding quicker adaptation.
13. If your child is shy or introverted, inform the teacher about his personality traits. The teacher can introduce him to a lively and outgoing friend, helping him adapt more easily.
14. Inquire daily about your child’s behavior at kindergarten and praise even the smallest improvements. This serves as emotional support for the child.
15. After returning home from kindergarten, engage in conversations about their day. Encourage them to perform songs or dances learned at school, reinforcing positive memories of kindergarten life.
16. Never use the threat of sending your child to kindergarten as punishment. This increases negative associations. Do not scare your child with stories about kindergarten or teachers when they misbehave at home.
17. If your child has a strong dependency on the mother, consider having the father take him to kindergarten.
18. It is crucial to send your child to kindergarten every day without fail. Be firm in your decision, stating "Tomorrow we go to kindergarten," rather than asking "Shall we go to kindergarten tomorrow?" Avoid making promises or yielding to unreasonable demands, even if the child cries daily. Consistency is key.