Let the children take the initiative to express their thoughts. In addition to guiding the children, parents also need to listen to their children's opinions and ideas, delegate power and let them deal with it by themselves. Of course, parents have more power than children, and even have the right to make children completely powerless. However, the consequence of doing so is to create a child without independent opinions, sense of responsibility and with bad temper. Diversion is a better means than blockage. Moreover, when children refuse what their parents ask them to do, they are not against their parents, but want to take the lead in their own affairs. If parents understand and respect this point, then releasing part of the power is also beneficial to the development of children.