Taking other people's things, when eating don't just eat the dishes you like, when picking food use your own bowl, don't drop food all over the table, talk politely, be courteous, don't swear, these are the basic family teachings my mother taught me, I thank my mom for giving me such good family teachings. My mom wouldn't let me go out to play at night, she said it wasn't safe, but I wanted to go out and play. I've argued with my mom about this many times before. My mom loves me so much, it was all my fault. Mom, I love you, mop brand!
Secondly, what I learned from my uncle is that when there are important guests, especially leaders, coming to our house, we should give the house a thorough cleaning. We should know how to address people, be polite, young men shouldn't have long hair, short hair looks clean and spirited, nails shouldn't be too long, don't use ear picks to clean ears, use cotton swabs, don't do it at night, do it during the day, it's best if someone else cleans it for you. Your room should be neatly arranged. Now I realize that it was the army that cultivated these habits in my uncle.
Then, what I learned in the army, in the backbone team, I learned that doing work should be fierce, mop! Have a decisive style, also be careful, the floor is wiped with a cloth, never use a mop. At home, I've never cleaned like this, at home I've never been beaten, in the backbone team we were beaten many times, from the front of the line to the back, crawled on the asphalt road many times, practiced falling techniques many times, wore out a pair of pants, a pair of leather shoes, two pairs of rubber shoes, and the leather on the combat boots was worn off.
I didn't tell my family, I just said I was a little tired, this way it feels more like being a soldier. The area captain taught us to take care of our image, people only recognize us as soldiers, they don't understand the difference between the PLA and the Armed Police, maybe this is the only time they will ever come into contact with soldiers, we might affect their perception of soldiers. Choose excellent students, don't choose those who often quarrel with you, act fairly. Although some of them in the back are short and dark-skinned, not pretty, and their movements aren't great, but they are very serious, sweating profusely, but you don't choose her, you might affect her whole life, she would think it's because she isn't beautiful that the instructor doesn't choose her, she has already tried her best, she becomes inferior... So, the batch I led from the Economics and Management School, all girls, 76 of them, there were a few who caused trouble, they would tease me during rest time, but once training started, I treated everyone equally, punished the same for mistakes. Sometimes I would take special care of those who looked like guys. I met a lot of classmates, I helped a few in life, when we met on the training field, I pretended not to know them. When selecting excellent students, there were only two spots, I chose one who worked hard and another who was good at military skills. There was a model who always quarreled with me, I didn't choose her, she was surprised that the model had an award certificate but she didn't. Originally I wanted to choose her, but it wouldn't be fair to the one who worked hard. I never had the courage to tell her the truth. I still remember her name. On the last day they left, they wrote several notebooks full of messages, phone numbers, QQ numbers. I swear I never contacted any of them. But for this batch in Baoshan, I kept their phone numbers. I just said we could chat as close friends. They listened to me well, even though I beat them, they gave me an expensive gold cup. Actually, a lot of them are older than me, we just have more common language since we're in the same batch, that's all. Last time I went to the supermarket, I saw a student I led selling walnut milk, she even gave me some to drink. I didn't even recognize her, I forgot. She reminded me. It was cold, it's not easy for students to earn their own pocket money. Anyway, they are more sensible than me. Out of pity, I bought a Sibiao for her. I feel they are not easy now, I'm already considered lucky.
Little Wall Gecko taught me two dishes, spicy hot fish, sour soup fish, and the method of removing fish bones. Yo, I want to go home and cook them for my mom.
What I realized myself is that family members are always the ones who care about you the most. My mom, knowing I injured my waist, asks me about everything every time we call, asking repeatedly. My sister criticized me for not taking care of myself and threatened to punish me. My aunt sent me two boxes of Yunnan Baiyao. Last year, reading the letter my aunt wrote to me, filled with concern and missing me, almost made me cry. I felt sad all day. In the backbone team, uncle, mom, aunt, sister, Lao Tao, Lao Dong, Uncle Gu came to see me. Even though they just took me out for a meal, seeing you all felt so close, so good. The atmosphere was great, everyone was laughing, no sadness. Lao Tao innocently even wanted to take me to watch a movie. Let's talk about it later. In the future, although I haven't met my brother-in-law, he called me before I left and told me things to be careful about. Maybe because of different types of soldiers, none of them applied, well, you still care about me.
Whoever is good to me, I'll be good to them. When I was young, my older sister, Xiao Lan sister, Yan Hong sister took care of me a lot, watching me grow up. Now I'm an uncle, it's my turn to take care of my nephews and nieces. Although they can be annoying when they cry, I will patiently care for them. Nephew, niece, uncle wants to pinch your chubby cheeks, although I haven't seen you yet.
Auntie, when I was young and playing at your place, I starved the bird to death, I didn't talk, I didn't eat. Cousin told you, you quickly came back and lectured me a lot, making me cry and snot. Your whole family was very nice to me. Now Bi Mengnan is rebellious, going astray, I will lecture him and bring him back, if not, I will beat him, if not, I will raise you! Of course, my mom is still the best. Every argument, regardless of right or wrong, mom always gives in first. In the future, I will spend more time with mom, let mom know that her son isn't raised and loved for nothing. Mom taught me good habits, so I won't swear in front of mom. Outside is outside, at home I am a gentle kitten playing with a ball of yarn next to mom. Mom and sister protect me, which makes people in the army say my hands are tender. So when I see people lose their stuff, I think they deserve it! Messy! So I don't like two people eating one person's food, especially after one finishes and the other starts, aren't you afraid I have some disease? Well, I am. I don't like picking food from other people's bowls, don't you think it's impolite, lack of upbringing? I don't like asking others for food, can't you buy it yourself? If you can't afford it, then don't eat. Don't you think it's like begging? I don't like owing others things, it makes me uncomfortable. I don't like using my things without permission. I don't like leaving things messy after using them. I don't like being misunderstood. I don't like explaining. Actually, mom and sister's love for me has become a bit selfish, but everyone has their own principles.