"Wei Jiefang" causes love to be lost, and the ignorant marriage format strangles love. "Tiao Ci Lin" adapts to the continuous changes in both parties' conditions, leading to the loosening of the original foundation and the collapse of great love. Love will change with wealth, people will change with power, and when rights are lost, love will also disappear. Therefore, the separation of love and marriage still exists widely in China. The majority of current marriages lack personal sexual love. In the "Marriage Morality Seminar" held by the Hebei Provincial Women's Federation in 1988, a survey data bag showed that about 30% of urban marriages were based on love, while less than 10% in rural areas. Many advocates of love have not united it with marriage. Most of their marriages are arranged hastily, and young people's arranged marriages still account for a certain proportion (about 5%). Moreover, many educated youths have experienced personal freedom, but due to the low cultural level and lack of sexual love awareness or other factors' influence, they have not developed their own personal sexual love within their marriages. Among those who married for material reasons, the phenomenon of losing love is also very serious. Nowadays, in our country, the death of love occurs frequently. After years of marriage, couples cannot maintain their relationships... From the perspective of quality, most rural marriages are still relatively backward. However, our society must strive to change this situation. If more liberated and modern marriages emerge in the future, then our society will progress greatly.
The development of modern industry and technological revolution has brought tremendous changes to marriage and family. The complexity of couples' lives has increased, reflecting changes in modern life. Many women in modern society are no longer economically dependent on men. Their economic needs can be met outside the home, and women no't marry just for economic support anymore. People's views on hasty marriages weaken both physically and psychologically. Economic centers shift towards more emotional and spiritual centers. Basic survival and children satisfaction can no longer bring enough fulfillment. In the minds of people who seek higher awareness, home is not just a place for rest, but also a place for seeking spiritual satisfaction.