"I already have a house and a car, but I value more about my other half's family background, personal quality and ability," Xiao Lin, who was born in 1989, told the author. Xiao Lin graduated last year from a university in Hangzhou, studying business management. He is preparing to train for several years in his father's company before inheriting the family business. He believed that the environment of both families has tangible and intangible impacts on their marriage, which is one of the key points to be examined. The woman's education, quality, and some other abilities determine whether she can communicate with him at the spiritual level. "My future wife may also need to help me manage the family business, so it would be better if she has a similar family background and is a college graduate like me, then we can get along better. I will bring up these issues when matchmaking." Experts: Getting married hastily to escape employment is too risky. Nowadays, young people born after 1985 are more eager to get married, and college students are anxious to marry. Society shows more tolerance towards this phenomenon and no longer criticizes them with derogatory terms such as "gold digger". Dr. Yu Beihong from the Department of Sociology at Fuzhou University analyzed that as college students, they definitely won't have low requirements for the spiritual level. However, they want to escape from social reality pressure by marrying men who have already achieved a certain material foundation, making it difficult for them to find partners among peers, thus turning to matrimonial agencies to look for "successful people". Nevertheless, this also leaves hidden dangers for marriage. Finding like-minded life partners is everyone's aspiration, but different methods may lead to mistakes in direction.