1. If the phone is not answered once, don't call again; if a text message is sent twice without a reply, don't send a third time. There's no need to wait so humbly. If it's meant to be, they will eventually respond. There's no need to degrade yourself for someone who doesn't cherish you. If someone starts to neglect you, choose to leave. Maintain your self-respect and dignity. It's better to be proud than to cling desperately.
2.
1) Love can be simple, but not careless.
2) A good man can resist temptation, and a good woman can endure loneliness.
3) Proud women often marry humble men, while proud men often marry lowly women.
4) There are no beautiful angels in this world, only kind-hearted women.
5) There are no two people who cannot be together, only two hearts that cannot come close.
3.
1) Behind every beautiful scenery lies either沧桑(cang桑 -沧桑means vicissitudes) or filth.
2) If you're rich, learn to pretend; if you're poor, learn to package yourself.
3) Don't argue with fools, otherwise you won't know who the real fool is.
4) Running errands in others' lives is not as good as being excellent in your own.
5) The person who is hated does not suffer, but the person who hates is scarred.
6) Greed is the truest form of poverty, and contentment is the truest form of wealth.
4. After walking some roads, you realize how hard it is. After climbing some mountains, you understand the difficulty. After crossing some rivers, you know what it means to trek. After overcoming some obstacles, you know what it means to surpass. After experiencing some events, you understand lessons. After meeting some people, you understand trials. After reading some books, you know what wealth is. After living a lifetime, you know what happiness is.
5. Life has three stages: running when young, strolling in middle age, and walking slowly in old age; life has three states: posture when young, physique in middle age, and illness in old age; life has three thoughts: dreams when young, feelings in middle age, and fantasies in old age. Life has three wisdoms: cleverness when young, mentality in middle age, and rationality in old age.
6.
1) Don't think that having a household registration means you can settle down.
2) Don't think that having a job means you have no worries.
3) Don't think that sowing seeds means you will reap.
4) Don't think that having ability means you will be promoted.
5) Don't think that having money means you will be happy.
6) Don't think that reaching the peak means you can conquer the world.
7) Don't think that blocking others' mouths means you will hear only praise.
7. The greatest sorrow in life is ignorance, the greatest failure is arrogance, the greatest blindness is resentment, the greatest mistake is aggression, the greatest trouble is right and wrong, the greatest hope is peace, the greatest courage is admitting mistakes, the greatest power is faith, the greatest intention is benefiting the public, the greatest cost is dignity, the greatest worry is life and death.
8. 【Please remember】We young people must understand:
1) If you're not brave, no one will be strong for you.
2) A child without an umbrella must run hard!
3) The road you choose, you must walk through even if on your knees.
4) Don't get angry, strive for respect. Don't see through things too quickly, break through them. Don't envy, appreciate instead. Don't delay, be active. Don't just think, take action.
5) Prefer to trip many times while running rather than walk cautiously all your life. Even if you fall, laugh heartily.
9. When above others, treat them as human beings; when below others, consider yourself as a human being. A simple life is not easy because to live simply, one must not think too much. People who like flowers will pick them, but those who love flowers will water them. The biggest mistake people often make is being polite to strangers and harsh to intimates. Correct this bad habit, and the world will be peaceful.
10.
1) When you have nothing left to lose, that's when you start gaining.
2) Learning should increase, pride should decrease, opportunities should multiply, and laziness should be eliminated.
3) 1% of people eat small losses and gain big profits, 99% of people gain small profits and suffer big losses.
4) The condition for success is the ability to change oneself.
5) True wealth is a way of thinking, not the number of monthly income. Happiness after maturity is a state of mind, understanding it brings happiness.
12.
1) Life is like a pressure cooker. When the pressure is too high, you cook yourself.
2) Do you think I will watch you die? Absolutely not, I will close my eyes.
3) The farthest distance in the world is not between north and south, but between me being on Telecom and you being on Unicom.
4) When problems arise, look for causes within yourself first, don't blame the lack of gravity when constipated.
5) A man's spirit is for struggle, not for shooting.
13. The person we should never forget is the one who helps you when you're in trouble; the person we should never associate with is the one who despises you when you fail; the person we should never trust is the one who boasts about you when you succeed; the person we should never abandon is the one who co-creates and shares hardships with you; the person we should never love is the one who doesn't value your character. We must never forget, discard, or despise our parents, they will always love us!
14. Thank those who deceived me, for they increased my wisdom; thank those who hurt me, for they strengthened my heart; thank those who abandoned me, for they made me independent; thank those who criticized me, for they pointed out my faults; thank those who tripped me, for they strengthened my legs; thank all friends and enemies!
15.
1) Education is bronze, ability is silver, networking is gold, and thinking is the ace.
2) Successful people don't win at the starting line, they win at turning points.
3) Don't live in others' mouths or eyes, but hold your destiny in your own hands.
4) Small intelligence is tactics, great wisdom is strategy; small intelligence sees sesame seeds, great wisdom sees watermelons.
16. 【Ten kinds of purple robes one shouldn't miss in life】:
1) Those willing to support you unconditionally.
2) Those willing to nag you.
3) Those willing to share burdens with you.
4) Those who educate and promote you.
5) Those willing to appreciate your strengths.
6) Those willing to become your role models.
7) Those willing to follow through on promises.
8) Those willing to believe in you without giving up.
9) Those willing to get mad at you.
10) Those willing to do everything for you.
17. Education represents the past, financial power represents the present, and ability represents the future. What you see and hear changes your life, unconsciously it can ruin your life. People without goals work for those with goals; the absence of crisis is the biggest crisis, satisfaction with the status quo is the biggest trap. Bet on the right horse, win once; follow the right person, win forever. A boss can give you a position, but not a future. Things not carefully considered three times will always end in failure; people who can endure everything have no worries.
18. For people you dislike, you can greet them with silent smiles; for people you like, let it show however you want, because your liking will naturally reveal itself. Past matters can be remembered, but must be let go. Even if you lose everything, never lose your smile. Don't easily make promises, unfulfilled promises are worse than none. Be good to yourself, when feeling down, consider nothing and eat what you love.
19. 【Four sentences for oneself】
1) When you have no one to rely on, no matter how bitter, tired, or painful, tell yourself not to give up, stay strong.
2) Even if the whole world doesn't understand you, at least you still understand yourself.
3) Reality is cruel, but you must endure and strive.
20. The root cause of poverty: On the surface, the poor lack money; fundamentally, they may lack ambition; in their minds, they may lack vision; facing opportunities, they lack control; in their destinies, they lack choice; in their bones, they may lack courage; in making changes, they lack action; in their bellies, they may lack knowledge; in their careers, they lack persistence; in their personalities, they may lack daring.
21. Those who can withstand temptation are saints; those who can endure solitude are giants; those who can escape poverty are capable people; those who can handle mediocrity well are strong people; those who can navigate smoothly through difficulties are great people; those who can clarify life are famous people; those who can understand human relationships clearly are wise people; those who can help others rise are noble people; those who can stir physiological responses are lovers; those who can endure psychological challenges are loved ones; those who can endure poverty are family; those who can torment emotions are family; these are all social people; those who harmonize well with families are ordinary people.
22. 【Ten common erroneous behaviors】
1) Thinking of friends only when lonely.
2) Learning to give only when wanting love.
3) Working hard only when having a position.
4) Remembering others' advice only when failing.
5) Realizing life's fragility only when sick.
6) Regretting not cherishing feelings only when parting.
7) Believing in oneself only when praised by others.
8) Realizing one's mistakes only when pointed out by others.
9) Planning to help the poor only when wealthy.
10) Realizing love for life only when dying.
23. 【Highest realms】
1) The highest realm of a person: treating oneself as others, treating others as oneself.
2) The highest realm of reputation: you have long left the江湖(jiang hu - refers to society), but the江湖still talks about you.
3) The highest realm of drinking: you still know who he is, but he no longer knows who you are.
4) The highest realm of friendship: rarely contacting, but always in mind.
5) The highest realm of career: family misses you, workplace needs you.
6) The highest realm of life: crying coming into the world, laughing leaving it.
Because there is tomorrow, today is always just the starting line. A simple life is enchanting, a simple heart is happy; learning simplicity is actually not simple.
25. 【What is happiness】
1) Not looking at others' expressions.
2) Not getting angry at home.
3) Not worrying about daily food, clothing, shelter, and travel.
4) Not frequently visiting the hospital.
5) Not suffering from insomnia.
6) Not feeling lonely.
7) Not being overly sentimental.
8) Not making villains worry.
9) Not pursuing fame and fortune.
10) Not being troubled by trivialities.
11) Not doing big things.
12) Not finding small things difficult. Achieving six indicators indicates basic happiness, achieving more than ten indicators indicates extreme happiness.
26.
1) If you can avoid cursing, do so! Once you curse, curse thoroughly.
2) You can deceive me, but don't let me know.
3) I can tolerate, but don't cross my bottom line.
4) I can pretend to be foolish, but don't think I'm really stupid.
5) No becoming a third party, no matter how much you like someone.
6) Dislike means dislike, no amount of persuasion will change that.
7) Any truth, I can accept.
27. Nine unavoidable rumors:
1) Restaurant - Your order is coming immediately!
2) Leader - Let me say a few words briefly.
3) Husband - I'm in a meeting.
4) First time.
5) Pure milk.
6) We did our best.
7) Ministry of Education - Never let education suffer.
8) Officials - Do more practical things for the common people.
28. 【New 12 Big Fools】:
1) Silently contributing and waiting for promotion.
2) Trying to climb higher without connections.
3) Having health issues but not checking them.
4) Frequently working overtime without feeling tired.
5) Taking charge of everything.
6) Being able to step back but struggling.
7) Feeling awkward being publicly opposed.
8) Expressing emotions through alcohol.
9) Accepting gifts regardless of who gives them.
10) Having a mistress but still wanting children.
11) Wearing expensive watches.
12) Smoking expensive cigarettes in front of cameras.
Youth is meant to be wasted, middle age is meant to repay debts, old age is meant to regret. When we were young, we didn't know youth was capital. By the time we realized this, our capital could never buy back our youth.