Far from it.... 555~ I need to work harder~
Mom is a typical Libra, and Dad is not quite a typical Aries. The two are still quite compatible in terms of constellations.
Mom is a standard ox~ diligent and stubborn, and Dad is a relatively standard dog~ down-to-earth and obstinate. The two zodiac signs don't get along too well.
Mom has type A blood, and Dad has type B blood. But Mom is super outgoing and articulate, while Dad is very introverted and doesn't talk much. In fact, I've always thought this is good. It's not good for both to be too competitive or too bookish. Complementing each other is better~ no fighting inside or outside.
It's not that they never fight... I think couples who never fight have some emotional problems. In my memory, when I was very young, Mom got so angry that she shouted loudly, and Dad just sat beside her, bending over, palms supporting his thighs, without making a sound, waiting for Mom to be exhausted, vented out, and then everything would naturally be fine~ My parents rarely quarrel overnight~ There are two memorable impressions about my parents' quarrels. One time, Mom smashed all the bowls at home. I was probably only 5 or 6 years old, with a blank mind and didn't know how to think. I just felt that what happened in front of me was very terrible, feeling that the family was going to fall apart because Dad also got angry, confronted Mom, and shouted back. But he never touched Mom. To say that Dad has never hit Mom~ nor has he hit me~ hehe~ Later, neighbors came to persuade, and then I don't remember what happened next. Not long after, they made up~ Another time~ I don't remember how they fought, only remembering that Mom ran out of the house in anger, and Dad chased after her with me. They sat on a stone bench, Dad comforting the委屈ed Mom. I stood aside, looking around uneasily. After feeding mosquitoes for more than an hour, or seeing names with the surname Xin in books and newspapers, the three of us held hands and went home together~
Mom was extremely beautiful when she was young, and there were many suitors pursuing her, symbolizing beautiful hope. Mom had a vague idea of love because of the characteristics of Libra, which highly pursues beauty. She mainly cares about appearance. If someone looks good, she will interact with them. When Mom first met Dad, she also thought Dad looked nice~
On that day of the date with Dad, Mom arrived at the agreed place on time but found that Dad wasn't there yet, so she prepared to leave, but couldn't help wanting to take a look, so she hid somewhere. Soon, Dad, who was delayed by something, came panting and waited for Mom. Mom secretly observed Dad and decided to meet him. But to punish Dad for being late, she hid for half an hour, thinking if Dad lacked patience and left, then it would be fine. As a result, my dear Dad passed the test and successfully dated Mom as expected.
Thus, Dad and Mom started dating, although Mom was also meeting boys arranged by matchmakers at the same time... Although nothing came of it... Just meeting for the sake of meeting..........||| There were also matchmakers who wanted to arrange marriages for Dad, but Dad rejected them all, loving Mom wholeheartedly~ Once, Dad went to play at Mom's brother's house, but Mom disappeared... So Dad played chess with my current uncle, and they played all day long~ Uncle liked Dad, this young man, on that day~ Later, it was learned that Mom was meeting boys arranged by matchmakers~ At that time, Mom treated it as socializing, a simple idea of enjoying making friends, a girl who hadn't woken up yet~ haha~
Dad is actually a very smart person, but he doesn't like to think about social things, treating people sincerely, but also a bit naive~ Actually, he has a clear understanding in his heart, but rather than argue, he prefers to bear losses lazily. Many things he doesn't want to think about.....||| Speaking of Dad's chess skills, they're pretty good, his physics knowledge is also decent, he's strong in practical skills, has a good voice and a good sense of music~! After hearing a song once, he can play it on the flute~! Mom's voice and sense of music.... In school, the whole school only selected two people, and both Wuhan Theater and Wuhan Literature and Art Troupe have selected Mom~! Unfortunately, Mom's artistic talent, equivalent to a panda level, was eventually wasted these opportunities~5555...... I inherited Dad's voice, which is still passable, but that sense of music!!!! Completely inherited from Mom... no sense of music at all!!! I'm crying~~````````````` But my eyesight is inherited from Dad's... nearsighted... Mom still has good eyesight till now~~~~~~`` Crying again~~~~~`
Dad is highly nearsighted, but when he was dating Mom, he didn't wear glasses to maintain his image......|||| Mom was puzzled at the time because Dad had big eyes but they didn't seem to have spirit~ but didn't think much about it~ haha~ As a result~ Every time Dad took Mom to watch movies, he spoke fluently pointing at the screen, commenting on the characters' clothing, streets, and scenes with great detail..... It wasn't until after marriage that Mom learned that every movie Dad watched with Mom, Dad would watch alone beforehand wearing glasses.... hehe~ moved right?
Finally, Mom married my Dad after dating for a year and a half~ Mom was 23, Dad was 26.
Mom is really a very capable person, keeping the house tidy and caring for Dad attentively. Before marriage, Mom didn't have to worry about anything or do anything~ After marriage, she became very devoted and virtuous. Cooking unappetizing meals.... Sigh~ It was the only small sadness of my childhood..... Asking sister-in-law for the latest knitting patterns of sweaters, managing the family's financial expenditure.... Dad didn't have to worry about anything, 【Book Sea Life】Ten Years One Word Wen Ruyan 28, enthusiastic and outgoing Mom handled external socializing, and skillful Mom handled household affairs, allowing Dad to work peacefully in the factory. Normally, all big and small matters at home were decided by Mom, and Dad supported Mom's ideas. However, on major matters, Mom would definitely consult with Dad, like a primary school student asking their teacher, respecting and relying on Dad greatly. People born under the sign of Libra are actually quite indecisive, and at this time, Dad became Mom's mainstay~
The most interesting thing is that Mom always tells me with a slightly helpless tone, "Your dad, whenever I come home late, he always calls to ask where I am, worrying endlessly~" When she says it, her eyes sparkle, even a bit shy~ hehe~
Mom also always says~ Marrying your dad hasn't brought much fortune, the people who pursued her back then were all better off than Dad, and still are now. But fortunately, your dad is not bad, willing to work and return home. If it were someone else, it might not necessarily be better~ Fully supporting Mom's sense of satisfaction, this way she feels happy. And... if it weren't like this, there wouldn't be me to say.......||||||
Mom also said, when she was young, she argued a lot with Dad, but as time went by, they grew older, and they stopped arguing~ Old couple, it's like this~
I like my open-minded mom, I like my reserved dad~ I like their acquaintance, love, understanding, and loyalty in that era... I will always love you both~! And such love~