8 Situations When Men Must Start to Flatter Women
Sweet opportunities are very important…
1. If your girlfriend cries in front of you, whatever the reason, please hold her tight, even if she resists, still hold her tight. Leaning on a table will never make her feel as secure as being in your arms;
2. If your girlfriend points out your flaws, please don't always complain about her nagging. If she didn't care, she wouldn't tell you;
3. If your girlfriend is angry with you and ignores you, don't do the same as her. This is exactly the time to test your relationship. If only the thick-skinned spirit doesn't come into play now, when will it?
4. If your girlfriend walks away without listening to you, be sure to chase after her. If you really still love her, how could you leave her alone and feel at ease;
5. If your girlfriend says "Go away, I don't want to deal with you," don't believe it. Women often say one thing but mean another. In fact, that's when she needs you the most.
6. If your girlfriend is upset and says she doesn't feel like eating, don't ask her what she wants or what she feels like eating. She will definitely say she doesn't want anything. Buy her the things you remember she loves best (preferably packaged ones, so they won't get cold by the time she feels better), but under no circumstances should you threaten her by saying you won't eat either;
7. If your girlfriend is going through her monthly special time, please remember not to ask her if she wants cold drinks. Always keep your hand on her stomach, even in summer, she needs that;
8. If your girlfriend says harsh words to you, remain silent for three seconds, then put your arm around her shoulder, smile, and say: "Honey, your voice is so hateful!"
Do you love me? This seems to be a question many women love to ask men, and silence or changing the subject also appears to be the response most men show. Women need sweet whispers, but men either don't understand or are reluctant to express them. This conflict has persisted in China for thousands of years, thus accompanying misunderstandings and friction between the sexes.
Do women really need sweet talk? Even if it's just to placate? What must men do to satisfy women? Do they have to become more affectionate?
Sweetness must be expressed…
Women need sweet talk
My ears have been lonely for a long time. Because my husband hasn't said loving words to me for a long time, and hasn't praised me for dressing well as he used to. My life lacks sweet talk. Our marriage also lacks passion, seemingly entering the seven-year itch prematurely.
Who doesn't know how to speak sweet words? In our youth, when we first fell deeply in love, sweet words flowed like an endless river, continuous without interruption. We didn't need to draft them or practice; it seemed like a natural talent. Back then, the two of us couldn't bear to be apart for even a moment. Just a half-day separation would fill our hearts with longing. My husband often called before bed, chatting for one or two hours. Endless sweet talk and deep affection, as if trying to finish all the words we'd ever need in a lifetime.
Love is like a marathon. At the beginning, everyone is full of confidence and determination. But later?
Later, some people get lost, some give up, and others barely cling on, not knowing when they'll quit. I think those who persist until the end are the ones who speak sweet words to their partners throughout their lives.
I envy my boss's wife at work. Because whenever the boss receives a call from his wife in the office, he speaks tenderly, asking questions like "Do you miss me?" Eventually, he takes the call outside to avoid me, returning half an hour later. A man nearly 40 speaking sweet words more skillfully than a 20-something young man. Hearing it, I shrink my shoulders and stick out my tongue, thinking how disgusting it is. But looking at it from another angle, if my lover could still speak such sweet words to me after 10 years of marriage, I would surely feel incredibly happy.
My husband and I have been married for less than three years, and he already refuses to say sweet words on the phone, rarely making calls. When I call his office, he speaks concisely, as if giving orders to a subordinate. I truly suspect whether in the future he will stop speaking sweet words altogether, only revolving around daily necessities like firewood, rice, oil, and salt. A life without sweet words is like flowers lacking irrigation. Over time, our love and our souls will gradually wither.
I think my ears have been lonely for too long, needing the comfort of sweet words. So dear, please be romantic sometimes, whisper sweet nothings into my ear, just like when we first started dating, praising me frequently. That way, I will grow more beautiful and lively like a flower seeing the sun. And our marriage will also become healthier.
Cherish your girlfriends. Don't think badly or complicate them. Women always want something simple!
Be a man who dares to be affectionate…
Revealing Men's Sweet Talk
If you're cold, I'll hold you in my arms; if you're sad, I'll wipe away your tears; if you love me, I'll broadcast it to the world... I just want to give you my true love.
Baby, I can't help but think of you, I can't let myself forget you, my heart cannot exist without you, so I will continue to bother you.
How many times have I seen your figure in my dreams, how many times have I called out to you alone, I just want to hold your hand, stroll down the road of life! Let's get married!
Your gentleness and thoughtfulness, your straightforwardness, your adorable smile, your enchanting eyes, every move you make makes me obsessed...
Not loving you is simply outrageous, not loving you is truly too disrespectful to myself, not loving you will make my friends hit me, my goal is only to love you.
A chance encounter made me notice you, a couple of meetings made me pay attention to you, repeated dates made me miss you constantly, nine out of ten times I should like you, and I am absolutely certain I love you.
It rained today, it rained yesterday, it rained the day before yesterday, heavy rain, moderate rain, light rain, drizzle... I thought of you today, I thought of you yesterday, I thought of you the day before yesterday, point by point, thread by thread, piece by piece...
I wish all the girls in the world would turn into you, so I wouldn't have to look for you everywhere; yet I fear all the girls in the world turning into you, because wherever I go, I wouldn't be able to let you go!
Did you sleep well tonight? I really want to call you and chat all night, but I'm afraid you won't rest well, so sleep early, my love, have a good dream.
To like you, others may find it easy to say, but I just can't bring myself to say it…
For some unknown reason, as long as you're by my side, my heart no longer feels restless.
Give me a reason to stop loving you. But apparently, you have none, and I seem unable to stop loving you!
The words of love for you, I can never finish saying; the words of hate for you, I can never utter; the thoughts of you, like a surging river; the possession of you, like waves crashing against the shore.
When my beloved smiles, the day becomes wonderful; when my beloved worries, work loses its momentum; when my beloved praises me, my heart blooms with joy.
Loving you is the theme song of my entire life, wind, frost, rain, and snow are the melodies of loving you, each day repeats this song, hoping to accompany you through every day!