There is a Chinese proverb that says, "Men fear choosing the wrong career, women fear marrying the wrong man." Men often say, "Working on bad fields and hoping for a good harvest, marrying a bad wife and suffering for a lifetime." Women, on the other hand, say, "If you marry a chicken, you follow the chicken; if you marry a dog, you follow the dog; if you marry a beggar, you have to carry his begging bowl." This shows that marriage is indeed not a trivial matter and cannot be taken lightly.