First Place: Ex-wife Ge Shuzhen
"At 19, I didn't even understand what family was all about, and got married in a daze." Zhao Benshan frankly said. Although they had experienced hard times, such as borrowing a bed to get married, the life without flavor and common language ultimately led them to go their separate ways. "Family is definitely not just a place for eating, drinking, holding children, and sleeping; there should also be mutual understanding and support on a spiritual level. There must be topics to talk about in order to have feelings and love."