Why are there so many differences of opinion about post-90s female college students who want to marry someone like Huang Shiren? Do you support or oppose the idea of post-90s female college students marrying "Huang Shiren"?

by greenus on 2009-10-17 15:03:14

Post-90s female college students question "Why doesn't the White-haired Girl marry Huang Shiren" has triggered heated online discussions.

Opposing views: Post-90s female college students who want to marry Huang Shiren must not mistake shamelessness for innocence. "If the White-haired Girl marries Huang Shiren, she will quickly be alienated into another class." It's hard to find a job, but after marrying Huang Shiren and having money in hand, one can struggle again to achieve their ideals, which is not a bad choice. However, the White-haired Girl did not plan her life this way, but instead chose to oppose Huang Shiren. "Knowing shame is close to courage", "Loving learning is close to wisdom", and "Acting with effort is close to benevolence" constitute the traditional "three virtues". The main value and dignity of human life still need to be created by oneself. It can only be said that this female college student is not as good as the illiterate White-haired Girl, and it can only be said that her social values have been alienated to a certain extent.

Supporting views: Before practicing horse stance, I have a question: If all or most post-90s girls now oppose marrying Huang Shiren, do you think it's normal? If post-90s girls don't want to marry Huang Shiren, I would think it's abnormal.

The origin of the story of post-90s and Huang Shiren

In response to the love confession of "post-90s" girls wanting to marry Huang Shiren, public opinion should not rush to criticize them en masse. On the contrary, we should thank this girl for her honesty and regard this confession as a wake-up call to treat the trauma of art and society. Lenin once said: "The art of every propagandist and agitator lies in influencing their audience in the most effective way, making some truth more persuasive to them, easier to understand, and leaving a deeper impression."

Patriotism knows no age, and striving for the country knows no generation gap. If you think post-90s are not patriotic enough, it's simply because they haven't grown up yet, or their way of expressing patriotism is different from the previous generation. Each generation has its own characteristics. What's scary is not that post-80s are different from post-70s, and post-90s are different from post-80s. What's truly scary is if post-60s, post-70s, post-80s, and post-90s were all the same.

The Huang Shiren that the post-90s girl wants to marry is no longer the Huang Shiren of old. Criticizing post-90s with the eyes that criticized Huang Shiren back then is not about post-90s mistaking shamelessness for innocence, but rather some people mistaking ignorance for innocence. Moralists waving big sticks, please don't easily slap a moral hat on an entire generation. That's not a big hat; it looks more like a big paper cat.

Many post-80s have already entered the workforce, some have even taken on leadership positions. Have they collapsed? Or are they unable to perform their social duties? Instead of labeling post-80s, now we're labeling post-90s. This is not only irresponsible towards a generation but also overly casual remarks about history.

Why are there so many differing opinions on whether post-90s female college students should marry Huang Shiren? Do you support or oppose post-90s female college students marrying "Huang Shiren"?