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This book, "The Inner World of Women, The Masks of Men," is an emotional cultivation manual for women in marriage. Renowned speaker Hu Deng details the seven major barriers to a happy marriage, 70 "minefields," and 40 bad habits that men see in their wives.
Marriages plagued by suspicion, coercion, entanglement, demandingness, complaints, indulgence, irritability, stinginess, nagging, interference, sarcasm, quarrels, and tension... These minefields not only fail to create a harmonious family but also push our marital lives to the brink of disaster.
If you have been searching for a key to open the door to a happy family, then the seven major barriers affecting spousal affection, the 70 minefields disrupting family harmony, and the 40 bad habits men see in their wives outlined in this book will surely give you the wisdom and strength to lead you toward joy and beauty.
**Chapter One: Crises Happen Every Day**
In the temple of marriage, weaker voices are easily drowned out by stronger ones, leading to crises. Behind every suppression between couples lies a seemingly justified reason — love. "Love" here is a proper noun; it represents dictatorship, with women who are naturally suspicious and complaining easily attacking silent men. Everyone hopes to have their own little world, a door that never opens to others. If we don't want others to intrude on our little world, the best way is to never intrude on others' worlds; otherwise, a crisis arises.
**Chapter Two: A Mouthful of Nonsense**
Most women's mouths are like broken trash bins, prone to self-inflicted trouble. Along the way, what was originally a blissfully happy married life has been shattered into chaos by incessant chatter. A mouth that could produce sweet nothings turns into a machine gun, explosives, and bombs in the hands of a wife who talks nonsense. Long-term married life requires constant renewal and upgrades. Even the most beautiful nonsense in the world needs some variation. When you're daily advising your man to quit smoking and drinking, first advise yourself: replace nagging words repeated more than three times a day with words that make him feel warm, and observe his expression.
**Chapter Three: Escalation of Conflicts**
Even in the best families, perfection cannot be claimed; there are always unsatisfactory aspects. Common conflicts include financial disputes, household chores disputes, child-rearing disputes, ideological disputes, physical and mental discomfort disputes, sexual life disputes, etc. Ignoring these conflicts leads to their deepening, while mishandling them escalates the situation. Internal conflicts should be resolved internally — this is the best approach. As long as couples sincerely resolve various conflicts, good results will follow. With a shared heart, no conflict is insurmountable.
**Chapter Four: Using You as a Punching Bag**
People tend to live according to the expectations others set for them. If someone treats another person as if they were a successful individual, that person will naturally exhibit abilities akin to those of a success story. Impressions others have of one’s husband are often influenced by the wife's attitude. Woman, every move you make, if not filled with praise and encouragement, will ultimately become a killer of a man's confidence. A man without confidence is tantamount to destruction — destroying himself while also harming the woman. Every excellent wife should learn to be her husband's engine — allowing his fame, talent, wisdom, and happiness to continue indefinitely.
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